For those of you who are uninitiated, the hashtag #AMBW stands for “Asian man, Black woman.” You may also see a variation of this as #AMBF, which means “Asian male, Black female.” Either way, you now know what it refers to.
Before you read this essay, go ahead and watch this video which I discovered by following @V16Baby on X (formerly Twitter). Astra appears to be a young Black woman who has a special attraction to Asian men. Good for her!
The video is only 1:32 long, so it shouldn’t take you too much time to watch it.
Don’t worry. I’ll wait.
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Are you ready? Great!
First, right off the bat you can tell that this is an amateur video. Very little production values except for someone having a phone that they’ve propped next to their “play area.” This isn’t a professionally produced video. The fact this is an amateurish “home video” gives it a level of “authenticity” that makes it even hotter. We’re watching real people engage in real sexual activities. There’s nothing “staged” or disingenuous about it.
Second, the identities of both of the humans in this video are obscured. The camera phone is positioned in such a way where you cannot see their faces. Which is too bad! I understand that they probably want to maintain anonymity and protect themselves from being identified. Not everyone who produces porn wants to become famous for doing so. Or be accidentally spotted by someone that they personally know (no one wants grandma or grandpa stumbling upon this video and watching you getting it on!).
I don’t know who these two people are. I don’t know if they’re a real-life couple or casual acquaintances. I don’t know if they’ve known each other for years or if they just met that day. I don’t know if they frequently collaborate on creating content or if this is the only video they’ve ever produced together.
Since the identities of these two people are unknown, I can’t research if they’ve created other videos. For all I know – and for all I can tell as if this writing – this is the only video in existence that features these two lovely humans. If any other exists, I am unaware of it. I’ve done some casual research and have come up with nothing else. I don’t even know where this video originates.
I don’t know what compelled these two to create this video and post it on the Internet, but I want to wholeheartedly thank them for it. It’s a wonderful video. It’s short, not flashy, not overly stylized, but incredibly erotic to watch. Of course, the target audience is very niche. It’s designed to appeal specifically to Black women, Asian men, and anyone who has a natural affinity toward #AMBW or #AMBF porn. Someone who isn’t attracted to such content will probably watch this with an indifferent attitude. Which, for the record, is totally fine. Not all content needs to appeal to all audiences. It’s perfectly fine for erotic content to be audience specific. Not everything has to be made for everybody.
I am, of course, a straight Asian man. I will assume that the man in this video is also a straight Asian man, though he could be bi-sexual or something else entirely. I don’t know for sure. But at the very least, he appears to be having a great time having sex with this woman. From my perspective, I’m watching this video as vicarious entertainment. I am allowed to superimpose my own context and fantasies onto it. The reality of things is irrelevant. Isn’t that what entertainment is supposed to be about? A temporary escape from the clutches of reality? I am allowed to interpret the events of this video in any way I choose because, as the viewer, that is my prerogative. That is my right. And I will gladly exercise my rights!
The woman in this video, is presumably a straight Black woman. I don’t know her full heritage (which is also true of the man), so I can’t tell if she’s mixed or fully Black. What I do know is that she has an incredibly beautiful body. She’s slim, keeps herself in great shape, and appears to be healthy.
It’s too bad we can’t see their faces! I have no doubt that she’s a beautiful woman and that he’s a handsome fellow. This may not be true, but in my mind they are two incredibly attractive people. They might as well be Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden. If humanity were to begin with their respective bloodlines, our planet would be better off for it.
Age-wise, they both appear to be in their 20s. I suppose it’s possible they’re in their 30s, but I cannot imagine they’re much older than that. They’re young and (presumably) fertile.
The video doesn’t get bogged down in any elaborate setups. It cuts right to the chase. No foreplay, no awkward dialogue, no setting the scene. Boom! You start the video…and he’s already positioning his penis to enter her. No buildup. Just good old-fashioned lovemaking by two beautiful people, reminiscent of a 1990s-era sex tape.
Another noteworthy observation is the size of his penis. He starts off the video fully erect. His penis is uncircumcised. He’s not wearing a condom. He’s holding his penis with his right hand, balances himself on the couch with his left hand, and immediately penetrates her. It doesn’t appear to be an anal scene, so he’s entering her vagina. The woman is on her knees, lying on a large grey couch. It doesn’t look like a bed, but the camera angle doesn’t give us a proper glimpse at what the bedroom looks like. We can see that her head is buried in a pillow and that there’s a fleece blanket underneath her.
Getting back to his penis, what’s remarkable about this video is how averaged sized he is. Obviously, I have no clue how large he is. If I had to guess, I would say he’s probably a solid 5 inches long, maybe shorter. It doesn’t look like he’s any larger than that. This is key because of a major insecurity that many Asian men have:
The insecurity of having a small penis.
Whether it’s scientifically true (or false) that Asian men have smaller penises than men of other races is beside the point. We’ll never know for sure. Everyone can speculate to their heart’s delight. I suspect (and this could get me grief from my fellow Asian brothers) that there’s a degree of truth to this stereotype. Is it universally true? Of course not. But could there be a small but statistically significant possibility that, perhaps, Asian men do – on average – possess smaller-than-normal penises compared to the global average? Um, maybe. I have no idea what’s true and what’s fiction, and to be fair, neither do you.
What I do know for sure is that this racial stereotype exists. It’s a perception that’s held by many people around the world, whether they believe it with malicious intent or not. A lot of Asian men are cognizant of this stereotype. For many, it’s deeply embedded in their psychology. It affects their dating life and choices of pornography. This explains why I love this video so much.
Here we have a healthy, young, Asian male with a normal-sized penis who’s making a beautiful Black woman scream to the heavens with delight as he forcefully bangs into her. It’s pure vicarious entertainment. Related to the stereotype that “Asian men have small penises” is the other stereotype that “Black men have large penises,” another mantra that isn’t universally true but a lot of people believe in. If we were to assume that this stereotype also has a degree of truth behind it, one could reasonably conclude that Black women are somehow genetically designed to receive a large penis during the act of coupling.
So, through generations of evolutionary development, if Black women have been designed to receive a large penis during coitus, it follows that an Asian man would be at a disadvantage when it comes to sexually satisfying her. None of this is scientifically backed, but that’s the pernicious thing about racial and gender stereotypes. They’re not always supported by peer-reviewed research. Just strange, deeply held insecurities and fears.
Yet, this man seems to have no problem giving this woman physical pleasure. In fact, he seems to be an expert at it. And, it should be noted, pointing out that his penis is “average sized” is in no way shape or form an insult. I’m not body shaming this man. If anything, I’m actually quite envious of his body. He appears to be fit, muscular, and healthy. While I’m not attracted to him, I can fully admit that he possesses a perfect physique! So my intention is not to body shame him at all. Quite the opposite, in fact. His body is perfect.
Her body is also perfect. She’s soft, curvy, and has beautiful mocha brown skin. I cannot say a bad word about either of these two gorgeous people.
The rest of the video is straight forward. He bangs into her from behind. She moans in ecstasy while he hardly makes a peep. The way she says “Oh my god” at 0:29 will forever be one of the hottest things I’ve ever heard. She seems to be genuinely enjoying the moment. She could very well be “acting” for the camera, but I somehow doubt it. I believe (or want to believe) she’s experiencing true pleasure.
The slap on her ass at 0:39 demonstrates assertiveness, but also a loving sense of possessiveness. He doesn’t want to hurt her. He wants to amplify her pleasure. “Impact play” is a major part of human sexuality. And an expression of desirability. He desires her body…and he shows it by playfully smacking her butt cheek while his cock is deep inside her.
At 0:46 he pulls her left arm behind her back. I’m unsure why he does this. Is it another power move? Is he putting her tighter into his grip, so that she’s more helpless and unable to escape? I cannot imagine that she’d even want to escape from his clutches. She seems to be thoroughly enjoying the moment.
Soon, her left arm escapes and returns back to bracing herself against the sofa. At the 1:00 mark, he repositions her body so that her torso is facing more directly toward the camera. We can now see her breasts. They’re beautiful. Her nipples are also beautiful. Everything about this woman’s body is beautiful. I have to imagine he does this because he wants to show off her perfect figure for the audience. Or is it yet another power move? Is he controlling her body? Is his decision to further expose her body to the camera meant to be exploitive, or simply motivated by him wanting to give the audience a better view of their activities? One can only wonder.
While watching this, it’s clear that he’s in control. She’s in a subordinate position. He’s clearly the dominant figure. Everything that’s happening seems consensual, so I don’t want to make any sort of nefarious accusations. However, it’s as clear as day that whatever he wants to happen, will happen. She’s just going along for the ride (no pun intended). That assertiveness is also a major turn-on for me.
This man is a sexual superhero. But his superpower isn’t flying, incredible strength, speed, or shooting lasers out of his eyes. His superpower is his ability to sexually satisfy any woman who is fortunate enough to go to bed with him. His cock, the basis of many Asian male’s insecurity, is his superpower. The most vulnerable part of his body also happens to be his most powerful weapon. There’s poetic beauty to that fact.
But, I suppose his cock isn’t a weapon. It’s a tool. A weapon is meant to destroy or damage something. His cock doesn’t do that. His cock provides pleasure, both for himself and for her. Him banging into her isn’t an act of destruction, but rather an act of love. They’re making love in the purest sense of the phrase.
As an Asian man, it’s empowering to watch this video. It gets me giddy whenever I see it. During this brief video that’s barely a minute and a half long, I am able to temporarily escape the real world and join in a fantasy world where an Asian Man is the sexual apex predator and a beautiful Black Woman is lucky enough to be able to experience his supremacy. He reigns supreme in this scenario. For 92 seconds, this man is a King. This man is, in this small slice of the world, the manliest man who’s ever lived. It’s unclear if he ejaculates inside her, but it’s safe to say that he probably did (perhaps several times!) at some point during their encounter together.
At the 1:18 mark, they start kissing. And how sweet is the sound of their lips coming together! It sounds like an act of love. It’s the culmination of two people expressing their love for each other in physical form. When she starts saying “Yes, yes, yes, YES” at 1:26, the crescendo of her voice implies that her orgasmic climax is close. It’s uncertain whether he or she climaxes during this video, but they’re both well on their way. I certainly wish this video were 5 or 6 minutes longer!
Indeed, we are watching Adam and Eve make love in the Garden of Eden. In my head, I fantasize about these two populating the earth. I imagine him spilling his seed inside her and her bearing his children. I fantasize about them creating hundreds of beautiful Blasian babies. I picture a world where, in 500 years, there are billions of people who have direct lineage from these two humble souls. Their bloodlines deserve to persevere for thousands of years. Perhaps empires should start as a result of their coupling.
Two beautiful souls making love in the most basic and primal way. Nothing fancy. Just two bodies going at it. Two human beings expressing their profound love for each other. Two lovely people experiencing pleasure and being charitable enough to share it with the rest of the world.
What was their intent, exactly? Did they want to make guys like me feel empowered? Were they targeting specifically the #AMBW/#AMBF crowd? Or are they good old-fashioned exhibitionists who wanted to feel “naughty” and share their sex tape for the entire world to see?
Whatever it is, I want to thank them. If I were to ever meet either of these two in real life, I want to shake their hand and sincerely express my gratitude for creating this video. It’s strange to write a 3,000-word essay on a video that’s only 92 seconds long, but that’s the funny thing about some erotic media. It can make the imagination go wild and force your mind to go to places that it otherwise wouldn’t dare go. Human sexuality is like that.
I could be wrong, but I don’t think he or she are “famous” in any sense of the word. They’re anonymous “nobodies” who created a single video. I wouldn’t doubt that they didn’t originally plan to film this and post it online. This could have been a “spur of the moment” sort of deal. Which, in a way, makes it even hotter.
This video is more than just a man and a woman having sex. There are a lot of videos like that. Finding them on the Internet is easy. This video, at least for me, exemplifies everything I look for in certain types of erotic content. It showcases an Asian man as the Sexual Protagonist. He’s not an outsider, marginalized, or maligned. He’s the main character. She is also the co-main character. Together, they’re participating in a beautiful erotic dance that people have been engaging in for generations upon generations. They’re giving each other pleasure. He’s giving her his seed. She’s gladly receiving his seed. It may not lead to an actual pregnancy, but in my feverish imagination, it does. Right now, maybe there’s a little tyke crawling around on the floor who’s a direct result of this video. He or she exists because of the events portrayed in this 92-second video. This kid was conceived in this very room, as a result of this lovemaking session. We are witnessing the origin of this kid’s life.
Or maybe not. Maybe she’s on birth control and no such baby exists. That’s probably closer to the truth. But that’s the thing about one’s imagination. In my head, any possibility can exist. Any outcome can come to pass. Nothing is impossible, no matter how unlikely it is.
In closing, I invite you to watch this video again. Don’t worry, it won’t take you long. Now, with everything I’ve written, do you notice anything new? Any unique observations? Any takeaways that you couldn’t have had just by watching it once?
Perhaps you can watch it two more times. First, watch it from his perspective. Then, watch it from her perspective. Pay attention to their physicality, behavior, verbal responses (or lack thereof), and positioning. Could you write your own long-form essay afterward? Perhaps you can. I’d be curious to read it.
For now, I leave you with this: No matter who you are, no matter what your body looks like or what insecurities you may have, you never know what impact you could have by posting a simple video of you making love with your partner – or you pleasuring yourself. You may not know it, but someone out there will watch it and enjoy it on a level that you could not begin to understand. Someone may find it empowering to witness. As odd as it sounds, you’d be doing a public service. You could brighten someone’s day. You could be responsible for lifting someone’s spirit when they feel down.
Are you ready to do your duty?
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